Okay, okay...
I admit it....
I was WRONG!
After my first post, I got to thinking about what I had said, and then realized that I was probably wrong, and needed to eat some crow. Now, I am sure of it.
The final answer to the original question is...
YES, there IS a difference between a present day diesel catalyst and a present day gasser catalyst. My confusion came from a mix-up between 2-way and 3-way catalysts. I had assumed that diesels had 3-way catalysts, since the new regs require 3-way catalysts, but then realized that a 3-way catalyst only works when the engine is moving back and forth across stochicmetric. So, I began to question my assumption yesterday, and have since found out that I am WRONG.
A 3-way catalyst, as discussed, reduces both hydrocarbon/CO emissions, and also reduces NOx emissions. The oxidizing part of the catalyst (HC/CO) likes a lean burn (ie, more oxygen than fuel) and the NOx part of the catalyst likes a rich burn. So, the fuel management system on new vehicles works the ratio back and forth from rich to lean so both can do their jobs.
After I made my fallacious statement yesterday, I realized that a 3-way catalyst would not work on a diesel, since they work through direct-injection (ie, non-stochiometric) combustion, so they are (from the factory) ALWAYS in a lean-burn situation, meaning the NOx side of the 3-way catalyst would almost never be accomplishing anything. So, I looked it up, and found out that before 1990 or so, diesel and gasser cats were identical. Both had 2-way catalysts. However, once they put O2 sensors on gassers, they converted to 3-way catalysts, while diesels stuck with 2-way, since there was no way to make a 3-way cat work on a diesel. So, the cat on a diesel only reduces HC and CO, but does noting for NOx. One method of NOx reduction that they are trying out is EGR valves, which recycle cooled, inert exhaust gasses through the intake to reduce combustion temps and therefore, NOx. The other option is urea injection, where they inject anhydrous of ammonia into the exhaust pipe, which breaks down the NOx and creates inert harmless exhaust gasses.
So, I retract my original statement and apologize for my mistake. There is a difference between them.